What hurts the most?

24 years old is a young age you may think!

Well I don’t agree! people may think that age is the age of having fun or getting a degree but I believe that some people on this age have experienced  many things that will never make them the same anymore.

You also may think that the biggest problem would be a broken heart of a cheater boy friend or a big fight with a best friend. I think things maybe bigger than that. Here is a story of a close friend of mine.

She was 15 years old when her older brother died, she was living with him with her sister and younger brother after her dad died, He meant the whole world to her a brother a father and a friend and this is where everything started. After that she moved to live with her other older brother. He was married and has 5 kids almost the same age of my friend and her spieling. However, Her brother was treating her as a maid  and she had to do what ever her sister in low said. Let me tell you a little bit a bout this sister in low. She was that kind of people who don’t have mercy at all. Whenever my friend received a gift from a friend she took it away and gave it to her kids as it was for them from the beginning. Even though most of the times she was just fine with my friend and her spieling but she always had to say something to hurt them. Money wise her brother wasn’t giving them what they needed. She lived with him for almost 4 years.

One day they just couldn’t take it anymore. A small fight with the sister in low made my friend realize that this was it!! She took her things and went out with her sister but her brother didn’t go with them he was scared. she went to her friend’s house and told her friend’s dad about everything  happened with her and from there everything started to get better because her friend’s dad talked to her brother to solve everything and he acted as real dad for them though her wasn’t from the family. However, by that time she was 18 years old and she had the right to receive her father’s legacy. From that point she lived in her own place with her youngest brother and sister.

What hurts the most was that she has 7 brothers and sisters and no one of them did anything to her although they knew what was happening with them. On the other side a stranger, her friend’s dad, helped her through everything.

But don’t worry what goes around come back around. Few years later 2 of her brother’s children died, each one of them in a different way, and he lost his business. After that he came to my friend crying for forgiveness of what he did so he can live in peace but she couldn’t because what he did was unforgettable.

Now she is a very successful women with a good career ,she travels the world, she visited me last year in LA and we had an awesome time. I am so proud of her. She is a model of a strong independent beautiful young lady<3

I think what hurt the most could be more that I boyfriend or a best friend!


15 Comments Add yours

  1. rabi80 says:

    It all hurts but when this comes from family I think the word hurt won’t describe the feelings.

    1. ghadeeralsh4 says:

      YES!! Totally agree

  2. judithdandan says:

    Sometime a best friend and boyfriend is also a whole world for somebody. I also have a friend who has a similar experience with yours, to them, if thing didn’t go like that, they probably would achieve more.

    1. ghadeeralsh4 says:

      That’s true. but I think friends can be replaceable but how can you replace the family!!

  3. kimberlyo1 says:

    I feel like when it comes to family it becomes a different story and it hurts more.

    1. ghadeeralsh4 says:

      yes and and Rabi said hurt won’t describe the feeling.

  4. jodyleylax says:

    I’m very happy for your friend, mostly because she learned from everything that happened to her, I wish her nothing but the best in life 🙂

  5. ghadeeralsh4 says:

    Thank you for your wishes<3

  6. hajerotb says:

    I think when it comes to family it is more hurt and it takes long time to overcome it. I think your friend became stronger because she learned from what happened to her.

    1. ghadeeralsh4 says:

      yes she is a strong example to me!!

  7. noufabdulla says:

    OMG, It really hurts when it comes from family!
    God bless her Inshallah ❤

    1. ghadeeralsh4 says:

      Ameen ❤

  8. ineskrb says:

    A very brave woman !

    1. ghadeeralsh4 says:

      She is ❤

  9. reemkulaib says:

    It so sad story but thanks God she is now independent and success woman.

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