A lot of people say the family is your blood links, but your friends are the family that you had chosen. Scientific studies show that good relations make your life easier and more successful. Be loved is the most powerful factor to be happy. The question is to know what kind of friend I am or Which friend I have around me? It exists several categories of friends: an acquaintance, a friend, a good friend and the last one a best friend.
The first level of a friendly relationship is an acquaintance. He is someone you know. You have already had a conversation with, but it is not personal. You always say hello when you see her to be polite but you don’t stay with her to talk a lot. In general, you don’t share the same vision of the world. You see acquaintance sometimes. Such as you don’t really know her and she doesn’t know you, you don’t trust her and it is the same for her. They don’t know your life.
The second level is a friend. A friend is someone with whom you can make some parties, but is not yet someone with whom you can talk about private things. We don’t have the same circle of friends. For example, a friend has his own group of good friend, I have mine and we can all be together at the same party. I can see them twice per month, that depends on our plans, activities. An acquaintance doesn’t know the details of my life, but they know lots of people of my entourage.
Another level is a good friend. You are always with your good friends and hang out with them. They can sleep at home as much as they want. If you go to a party, you will prepare together. For example, they know very well your parents and your life in details. A good friend is someone with whom you share everything. They know all your ex and your claimants, your projects and your past. You try to see or text them every day. They miss you when they leave, It is like losing your legs.
The last level is the best friend. It is the grail of a relationship. You can’t have more than two best friends. It is a very symbolic and unique relation. Your best friend is not anymore your friend, but becomes a member of your family. Sometimes, you become only one person because you share so many things so you start to think in the same way. For example, when you are young, your only dream is to live with your best friend. In general, your best friend shares your life for the eternity. More your friendship is long, more it is sustainable.
To conclude, there are different levels of friendship that depends on a plenty thing. The trust, the communication and the frequency can be points for evaluate your relationship. Some relationships are obvious. An acquaintance can be your best friend in one day. In my opinion, the best way to keep or to find a friend is to stay open to all opportunities.