2/14 is always a very special day. It is the Valentine day and last week I guess everyone was celebrating it with a special person. Even if you didn’t celebrate it you would feel it vibes in the atmosphere balloons, flowers and red color everywhere. Wether you are in love or not there is a very important thing you need to know and understand to live a stable, good and healthy relationship with the one you love which is to know what is your and your partner love language. Now, if you are single you would wonder why should you learn your love language? I would say that this would definitely help you in your next relationship and will make you more educated. Another thing I would like to add to this is when you learn what are the love languages and know how to use each one of them that will help you in all of your personal relationships family, friends and coworkers..etc.
Few months ago one of my best friends was talking to me and asked me to get her a book from here (USA) and send it to her with my sister who was going back to Jeddah. The book called The 5 love languages for singles. I ordered the book and received it earlier that what I expected so I thought of reading it. The book is written by Gray Chapman a author, speaker and counselor who help people to achieve better relationships. I finished reading this book in 5 days because it was an amazing one. The author in this book sorted love for 5 languages: words of affirmation, acts of services, receiving gifts, quality time and physical touch. Each chapter describe what is the meaning of each one and how to know your primary love language.
The book gave many examples and stories of different people and situations. After reading this book I became more aware of the people’s acts and behaviors to know exactly how to communicate with them. The most important thing that I learnt is to know what’s my love language.
Over all, I think love in general is very complicated and trying to understand the one you love is even more complicated but nothing is impossible! I read this book by coincident and it changed the way I think and the way I understand people. You never know what the future is hiding for you but why not trying to be smarter with your relationships to enhance the success chances. What’s so funny is that I have 3 love languages not only one.Words of affirmation, quality time and physical touch so I guess my boyfriend or my husband has to do a lot to bless me:p. He needs always to give motivated words, spend more time with me to do activities together and to hold my hands and hugs me more often. Now I know what I want from my partner but what about you? What is your love language? maybe you would like to take the test to see! Please share your love language so me and the classmates know how to communicate with you from now on:D!!