They say you should never regret a single moment in your life. However, things don’t always go on the way you wish they would be. I’m not the one who usually regret on things I have done, but I often regret on things I haven’t done and sentences I haven’t said.
A typical scene goes as follows: a friend of mine wears a nice outfit to the class. I was trying to make a compliment. But the words got stuck in my throat, and it didn’t come out in the end.
Another scene goes like this: during a conversation, I hadn’t come out a good response to the topic, so I remained silence. Later I came out with some idea and I realized I should have respond like that, but the moment has gone.
This issue bothers me a lot. I want to be that cheerful and humorous person, but I can’t. Sometimes my mind just goes blank. Other times I fear to say something because I feel it could make me look stupid or cause others to ridicule me. I concern too much about what others might think of me. I know this is silly and I shouldn’t feel this way. I’m trying to fight with this problem, but still it’s really hard. Does anyone have a solution with this?