I think many women who are reading this topic will feel as frustrated as I feel. In New York, that are many women who come from different parts of the world and we hold various cultures. When it comes to dating, many of us make a lot of mistakes. There are three things that we should know when we are dating. 1. We should avoid dating somebody who is in an open relationship. If we are dating someone who is in an open relationship, it means the person cannot be trusted. They are selfish and are not capable of having a stable relationship, so we should not get involved with someone who seems to go from relationship to relationship. 2. We should avoid trying to change people. It is difficult for us to change any kind of behavior. We have our unique traits that come from birth or perhaps they come from the way our parents raised and treated us. We cannot make someone be more active, positive, and intelligent. We can try to adapt, but we cannot change who people are. If we try to change somebody, we will feel upset and frustrated because we cannot control the way that other people are. 3. We should avoid dating someone who is not hundred percent into us. Here are some red flags that indicate someone does not want a serious relationship. 1. He has told you that he is not ready for a relationship. 2. He does not hold your hand in public. 3. He checks out other women when he is with you. 4. He talks about his ex-girlfriend a lot. 5. He does not like to make a plan. 6. He does not introduce you to his family and friend. 7. It takes forever for him to return your text message and phone call. All these signs tell you that you should leave him and work on your self-esteem. Dating in New York is not as easy as dating in other places. I hope these tips help you to meet a good guys.